I see many posts about young women trying to find men so I figured I'd throw this out there and also get thoughts from other older men on here.

To the women - do not bother posting because you will be flooded with responses. Unless you are just looking for attention and validation, only look and respond to guys who post.

To the men - I'm guilty myself, but we all collectively need to stop giving every woman who posts our time and attention. It's really not an effective way...or hasn't been for me. Sure, may reach a few, but from comments I've read, nothing becomes of it.

Does this make sense? What other ideas do you have that can improve success rate of meeting the right one on here?