I'm relatively new to accepting this as being my natural state of mind, but I much prefer the idea of a younger, more energetic mind in a partner. As such an AGR is the natural conclusion.

Being naive I'd hoped that the mindset of the AcGR posters would reflect a respect for the age difference and the nature of the relationship being arrived at not by lust alone but by considered introspection of the rights and responsibilities implied.

Instead, r/agegappersonals is overrun by M4F horndogs and due to the market, the OF-adjacent providers fill in the F4M slots. The rest of the posts are easily lost in the static.

I cannot deny that there is a romantic ( and by extension sexual) part to even the vanilla posts, nor can I deny that there might be a component of kink that's included in posts, but the overtly "(ORIFICE) STRETCHING ALPHA SEEKS TINY BARELY LEGAL" firehose is a bit much.

I propose: a segregation of subreddits: Age Gap Personals for the STR/hookup set and Age Gap Personals for people who want an actual, y'know, relationship.

It appears that r/agegaprelationship is not for dating posts, so what is the solution?