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Question about sexual norms
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I am 35F. New man friend is 55M. The sex is pretty great, with a few notable exceptions.

I really enjoy giving oral, and Iā€™m really good at it. Itā€™s like, something I pride myself on. He says he likes what Iā€™m doing, but when heā€™s about to finish, he pulls me up and thenā€¦ other things happen. Apparently being inside me is even better lol.

He also has yet to go down on me.

Is it just a thing with ā€œmen of a certain ageā€ that oral isnā€™t part of the repertoire? I enjoy it as a tease, a preamble, or the main event. Both giving and receiving.

I have tried to discuss with him but heā€™s quite reserved. He doesnā€™t even make noises during sex, but thatā€™s another post.

Can anyone weigh in on how I should address this with him?

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Itā€™s definitely not related to age. You just need to communicate your feelings to him. If heā€™s a real man, heā€™ll hear you out.

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