We so often hear the criticisms from mostly women, and some men about apparently all of us older men pursuing younger women for creep reasons. I am speaking for myself, and any other older men with the same perspective and reason.

I am naturally a goofy "man child" according to women my age. What am I? I AM a grown man who is responsible with money, takes care of the bills, and likes to have fun being playful, silly and goofy with people. I don't go to bars, I don't drink irresponsibility (rarely get buzzed even), I don't do drugs (will do 420 in a legal state though), I'll have my periods where I'll game responsibly if I game, I crave a good 2 or more hours cuddling together watching TV before bed, like sex often, can cook up good healthy meals, will go out on family outings, take care of kids, keeping them focused, organized, and on task, etc.

To be criticized as a man child and told to be a responsible adult because I like joking around and being playful with people and kids is just a complete turn off, and I fall out of love fast, as I did with my ex wife (although she is narcissistic and gaslights to win arguments).

So all this said. Younger women are more inclined to be playful and sexual with us than the women our ages that have outgrown being playful and flirty with us as their husbands. You outgrew us, so we had to step our acceptable ages we'll date down to where we get more playful and flirty partners for us. We just have to search harder for the ones that meet our responsibility, and maturity requirements.

As for the creep types just using younger girls for sex and destroying them in the process, quit being so selfish and grow up.

Edit: I dropped the ball on initial post to clarify that not all older women fit the above mentioned model that is based on those women I've either had relationships with or been friends with, nor do all younger women fit the model based on those I've either had relationships or friendships with. The core factor of a relationship is compatibility regardless of age. While I have my preference of 30 , in rare circumstances I will make exceptions for 21-30. Hopefully this clarifies these points better. I greatly appreciate the feedback and criticisms. Thank you.