So I am a 58 M and my girlfriend is 37, my ex is 38, so roughly a 20 year age gape is something I'm comfortable with. I met my ex when I was 39 and she was 19, but the thought of me now having a relationship, other than strictly sexual or Kink, with someone under 35 has no appeal to me. Yes having sex or Kink with some young 20 something appeals to my ego, but I have ended relationships with a few women in their 20's as the drama, immaturity, selfishness and partying is such a huge turn off it is not worth the problems. Also older women, 35 , seem to be better at having a mature supportive equal relationship in my opinion.

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So is your age gap a specific age range that may stay set at a certain age gap in years (such as 20 years from your age) or do you seek women at a certain age (say 35 ) or open to any woman of any age, as you get older? Same question to you ladies: The older you get do you have a range or a set age limit?