I (f20) am fairly inexperienced sexually. Only ever been with a few guys who were very vanilla.

My bf on the other hand (m36) has been with quite a few women and seems to have done everything.

Understandably, he's pushing me to be more adventurous. Which is usually quite fun. Learning new things. Doing something new. Being pushed out of my comfort zone.

But sometimes I feel like he's pushing me too far and too fast. I don't want to tell him no, because I want him to be sexually satisfied with me.

I've mentioned it to him before. But he just says I'll eventually enjoy whatever the particular act is over time. That I need to practice. That I need to learn to be better.

Is that sort of thing just par for the course for age gap relationships?