F25 met M39 in April but then we made it official in July.

Can someone really be too busy to not text back or say anything at all? Like go 2-3 days without saying anything?

I’ve asked him to tell me in advance if he gets busy or to at least send a good morning or goodnight text. He will do it for a couple days but then stop. When we first started talking, he was very consistent with texting and seemed interested in getting to know me . Now it feels he only texts me when he wants an ego boost or when he wants to nudes. He only seems engaged when the topic involves sex. When he flies back to see his son back home, he will not text me for awhile and then it feels like he gives me some excuse why he couldn’t text me or say he is too busy to text me when he is with his son or family.

We are supposed to be monogamous but I sense there is someone else. Texting is the only way we can communicate due to him having to travel for work and then prioritizing seeing his son when he gets back.

I told him I feel like he treats me like an option and responded with he doesn’t have to make time to see me because then he could get more time with his son. I guess that is true it just hurt to hear.

I asked him why we haven’t gone on a date together and he would say he just wants to stay inside. Recently I pressed more on going on a date and he said he thought I was embarrassed to be seen in public with him. He knows I have always dated older men and never embarrassed about it. Is he projecting?

I feel like I’m being insecure and unreasonable but his behavior seems off to me and I don’t know what to do. I have never dated someone with a kid so it’s a new dynamic. Our relationship is pretty much long distance and I see him like 2 times every 2-4 months. It feels like he doesn’t like me anymore and I’ve communicated that with him but he said I was being insecure. When I said I worry that there is someone else he said I could be doing the same with him.

He is supposed to be here tomorrow and come over but he hasn’t responded for three days now. I feel like I need to leave him but I feel like I’m being sensitive and I would hate to leave him over my insecurities. I feel so stupid.