Just wanted to share my quick story. Bi guy in mid 40s here and comfortably sexual with both men and women but definitely into women more. When I was in my early 20s my biggest turn on/ kink was being with an older experienced guy in his 50s or 60s. The idea of being submissive to an experienced man who would guide me into whatever position he wanted, REALLY turned me on. It was definitely a kink but I was also learning A LOT sexually from older guys too. I didn't have much gay sexual experience at that point in my life. And I probably thought I had tons of hetero experience because I had a high school girlfriend but that was cutely naive. Anyway, here's a quick story that I remember really turned me on...

I went onto a popular gay hookup website when I was about 22 or 23 and didn't really know what I was looking for.. but I remember that I was young and horny, haha! An older guy in his 50s started chatting with me and I remember thinking how turned on this made me feel. It just made my entire body tingle.. I truly came alive! I was on fire. So after some back and forth we definitely wanted to hook up but he couldn't host nor could I. So he came up with this idea... He'd take me to his work place office in the middle of the night. HUGE erection right there! Haha. Besides being turned on by the older-guy hookup, now we were doing something truly naughty! He would definitely get in trouble if caught... It was a similar turn on to sex in an elevator... "This is awesome and we might get caught!" Anyway, he was the head of a non profit organization and they had beds and stuff for clients (I think it had something to do with helping folks in the community who were down on their luck and needed temporary shelter.. Can't remember exactly). I met him at his office and he took me upstairs and it was just awesome. He was very very experienced and patient. He was totally turned on and so happy to fuck a cute younger guy. We did all sorts of positions and fun stuff and just in that session alone I learned so much about what I liked and did not. I let him completely guide the interaction and got to act a bit submissive, which I really liked. And I just remember thinking how this was SO AWESOME. It was truly a big kink fantasy and I was living it in real time!

Anyway, I had some other amazing older-guy sexual experiences along the way when I was younger and it was a lot of fun. I'm thankful for those experiences and I look back at them fondly.

Thanks for letting me share, age-gappers!