Ok so I’m not sure how to ask but let’s try. For context, I’m married and happily so. At my work everyone knows this, in fact my husband works in the same organization so some people know him. What people DONT KNOW is that we are in an open marriage and I go out to see other men. Now in these instances I like to see older men. I normally have to go online to find potential dates or use apps but it’s exhausting and I tend to strike out. Also I am super busy so my potential dating pool (so to speak) are men I interact with at work or school I have found some men who I’m interested in either of these places (like don’t get me started on my professor…) but I don’t know how to let them know that I’m interested in them. As I am of a more old fashioned submissive nature I’m not as upfront about it and I’m not the best at flirting. And I’m fairly certain that they will not approach me because I am married or because I’m younger compared to them. So… what’s the trick- for lack of a better term.