I saw a TikTok which made me uncomfortable.

Here's a partial transcript of what the woman in this video said:

""" So I wasted my twenties - wasted them - dating and then eventually, when I was 23, marrying a man, who was much older than me.

Older men who are into girls who are 18, 19, 20 are into those girls because they're looking for victims.

They're not looking for partners

They're looking for victims, Okay? """

She goes on to describe the emotional and psychological damage that dating much older men did to her in her twenties.

Now, I am a man in his 30s who has recently found his way into two relationships with 19 year old girls. And I don't think of myself as seeking victims.

What should I think to myself after seeing a take like this?