Hey all, long time first time. I don’t have a problem with talking to women, and even less problem with older women. But sometimes when I meet someone I genuinely get along with outside of a physical connection it falls short of anything else. I’m fine with it being a fling but sometimes it feels like a bit of a “I’m being used scenario” because they talk about their kids’ ages in comparison to mine. And this happens regardless of if my partner is in her 40s or 50s. I have only had a few partners last longer than 3 or so months and they just tell me they want me to be happy and that they love being with me but that they feel they are taking something away from me? Maybe they think I am bored of them and are trying to preserve their pride? Stop from getting hurt? I just want to convince the ladies that I would tell them I’m not interested in any further emotional connection if that’s the case I’m very honest lol. I was just curious mostly from the woman’s perspective.

Edit: I did not mean to come off as cocky in the first part! I just meant that’s not what I’m primarily confused about. Thanks :)!

Sincerely,

Confused cub