AgeGap is a reasonably safe place to discuss age gap relationships and seek advice on them. However that does not mean that it is totally safe and that everyone will automatically think that your age gap relationship is wonderful. We just expect any disagreement to be politely phrased and constructive.

Rules

Our primary rules are

1. "No abuse" which translates into "be as polite and constructive as possible"
2. "No Personal adverts" (go to /r/AgeGapPersonals or another dating subreddit)

For the full set of rules, see the sidebar or the Rules section in our Wiki

We occassionally change or modify the rules and welcome suggestions for rewording where the rules aren't clear. We also welcome suggestions for rule changes but please be aware we are unlikely to make major policy changes as we have more or less settled what we do and don't want to see on this subreddit.

You are allowed to disagree with the rules but we will remove you if you conduct actions hostile to this community. In particular you may be aware that we accept posts from people of all ages. There is nothing controversial in this as other sexual and relationship advice subreddits do the same thing. However this subreddit is focused on those who can have legal, consensual age gap relationships, so do remove posts from or about those under 16 (the median age of consent around the world) after we feel enough advice has been given¹

^{1. this can be anything from 5 minutes to 48 hours}

Wiki

We have a Wiki which has some useful pages

1. Wiki main page
2. Opposition to Age Gap Relationships
   Reasons why such arguments are invalid with resources
3. Age of Consent
   This subreddit is not really the place to conduct age of consent debates (perhaps /r/ageOfConsent or political subreddits) and often remove comments starting such debates or which contain any incorrect legal statements. However if you want to know the law, here it is.