Right i am 32 year older than the girl and we have had breaks before over the age gap but at no point was i bad or mistreated her in anyway if anything i`ve always gone out of my way to make her feel safe and understood as i thought it was only right .

We have meet up gone out on dates a few times in her local area and ive stayed over quite a few times in hotels local to her but she never stayed the night and i never pushed her to stay.

She had a problem not with herself with the age gap it was her family and friends and she wanted to introduce me to them which i thought would not go well after hearing stories about her family .

after a few months of seeing each other on and off she decided to stay over for the first time and her mother wanted to now my age and she told her i was 32 and she wanted to talk to me on the phone before letting her stay over to get a feel for me and after talking to her mum she said after to her that no way was i 32 he sounds like he is 45 and she said i was and she let her come to mine for a few days

which was good of her i thought anyway the next day after she had spent the night her mum phoned up saying she wanted her home early and i said we should show respect to her mum and i would drive her home early but before that i was taking her to Chester for the day and to Bella Italia for food and all was great and got her a gift for valentine's day as i would not be seeing her and she wanted to meet my brother and his wife but they where busy then i drove her home and her mum was happy with this and said she was happy for me to keep seeing her.

We where making plans to go on hoildays and she wanted to come back down straight away to stay with me but i said good chance i would be working i was just waiting to here back from work as i was hoping to travel up to see her on the weekend and stay at a local hotel every thing was fine taking on the phone all love chat.

I sent her a box of chololates for valentine's day which turned up a day early and she was very happy

and we talked on both days and every thing was fine and she decided to talk to an uncle valentine's day night and the next thing i know its we should talk i think we should go on a break after he saying hes not happy with us and he will not have anything to do with her if she keeps seeing me and i had done nothing to show i was a bad person or anything to hurt her just my age.

I said to her its not a break if he saying that he wont be in your life if you keep seeing me he`s blackmailing you and he said it would be best to post of some dating site and find some one else closer to her age and she had posted and got loads of intrest.

And the next day after i asked her she said that she had meet a 26 year old and kissed and he had wanted sex but she had turned him down and she was SORRY it just happened ..

And she wonders why i was a little upset.