Provide some insight to my recent experiences.

I’m a younger woman in my twenties that is heavily attracted to men over 35 years old. It seems as though the ones I meet are only interested in gaining some sort of control and when express a different interest or opinion they attempt to degrade you or spew hateful things. I’m unsure if I’m looking in the wrong places or if I just attract men that don’t value relationships and connections and respect for women. I hate to think that skin color plays a part in that. I’m a well put together young woman that keeps to herself and isn’t just out doing anything.

Do older men still value traditional dating with younger women? Do they have respect for women?