I think there should be separate categories for male/male and female/female relations, since in the past it wasn't uncommon for certain cultures or faiths to ignore one kind of same-sex relation, for example, while criminalizing or shunning another kind of same-sex relation. Some of the more bellicose post-apocalyptic faiths could actually exalt male homosexuality in much the same way some ancient Greek poleis did (modelling the finer details of such relationships, such as their stark active/passive divide, would be beyond the capabilities of CK3 modding, I think), while some of the more hardcore Naturalist faiths could have a similar view of female homosexuality, while condemning its male counterpart.

What do you think?