( I will try to make this as short and to the point as possible )

I am a 32 year old black ( caribbean ) man with a 9 year old daughter living in south jersey and I need to get out of my parents house like yesterday.

After having to drop out of college ( with only 8 classes or 8 credits left I don’t remember) because I had my daughter but felt like a burden to the rest of the class if I kept taking her to my college classes with me.

Since then , I moved back with my parents but with that came a snowball effect …

1. Grandmom had dementia so her last days were spent with me

2. Dad had a stroke and is paralyzed on left side

3. Mom had cancer ( she finished her treatments now )

All of that more made me feel like I had to “step up” , but the sentiment went from “hes here because he wants to be” to now “he has to, he has no choice”

I was raised to respect, especially your mother . On the other hand , I was also raised to be a man and as a man disrespect should not be tolerated.

But at the end of the day they are still my parents and it is still their house , but im not the only loved in my family so it should not be solely my responsibility, so I gotta love from a distance.

I currently have no money but that’s because Christmas just passed , I do have a job . I am a server at an “upscale bar” type restaurant. I will not say which because it is pretty popular in my area , but if anyone has a house for me , my daughter and her two dogs please reach out to me .

Thank you.