Hey there, so I have connected with a couple of people but finding someone who can meet consistently is proving harder than I thought. Married and will stay married because my OPSEC is on point. I need yours to be too.

I'm 37, married looking for someone married, in a dead bedroom and looking to fill those needs they have been missing for some time now. I've done this before and it's worked out well in the past. Had some poor experiences but that's to be expected to be honest.

Women on this app have it much easier than men in terms of options (even though 95% of them are most likely bad options) so I'll be pretty crystal clear with what I want/need.

I need someone i connect with. My job requires me to be available 24/7 but my working hours are typically late at night due to the nature of the business. I need someone in the same situation. Either your husband works nights or you do. That's the key element.

Now obviously I need to be attracted to you physically but honestly it doesn't take much for me personally as long as we click personally and emotionally. I've been with women of all shapes and sizes throughout my life and I'm not really one of those bros who needs a gym fit check to enjoy our limited time together.

Life is pretty short in the grand scheme of things and to live that life without passion, emotion, excitement is really sad and I need all of this...i crave all of this. I can't promise you that I'll be the man of your dreams or even the man you need but I can promise that I will put in the effort and try my best to make you happy.

We only get one life. We might as well spend it the way we want to and have a little fun along the way. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you are female, lonely, needing someone to talk to, cuddle with, make you feel safe, and enjoy life. I am not big on one night stands, I need connection in order to proceed with meeting up, and I want something pretty consistent. Once a week or every other week meet ups minimum. If our schedules align even more.