I’m going say way too much here, but buckle in. I promise it’s worth it.

I feel like this place has gotten so disposable lately. Quick ghosting, low effort conversation, closed off responses. I really want to find someone who is willing to get into this with me. No surface level BS. Maybe we want to change our situations for once? Please only reach out if you have the communication skills, the time, and the energy to commit to this. Don’t waste my time, and I most certainly will not waste yours. I’m a catch, and I know there are many other catches on here. Let’s find each other.

A little about me - Married, of course. I’m a simple, easy going guy. I am confident in saying I am handsome, cute, attractive - pick your favorite adjective. I take good care of myself physically and mentally, and I tend to enjoy the finer things in life. I have a career that I’ve excelled quite a bit in, and am proud of. Physically I am tall, in good shape, and well groomed/kept. Personality wise, I’d say I definitely lean more so dominant and old fashioned/traditional. I’ve always acted older than my age would suggest. I like to think I’m well spoken and sociable. Beyond all that, I am a dad, so being a parent is a very important part of my life. I don’t really have all that much time for hobbies anymore, but when I do, I’d say they pretty much include sports, cooking, and reading. I’m a bit of a non-fiction nerd, and I love learning.

What/who I am looking for - honestly I’m pretty flexible on this. Age doesn’t make a big difference to me. Slightly older women seem to be a better match maturity wise, but don’t let this be a deal breaker. Personality and communication skills matter the most to me. I need someone who likes to chat and is excited to be doing this with me. I’m not going to pretend looks don’t matter, because they do, but they won’t get you very far if you have the personality of a paper bag. I’m a dad, so you get bonus points if you’re a mom. Plus, mom bods are kinda hot 🤷 That being said, if you’re someone who is at least pretty active and enjoys taking care of themselves and looking nice, then we will get along. Confidence goes a long way with me.

Oh it should go without saying that I’d like something long term and serious. Please don’t reach out if you’re happy with your spouse. This won’t work if you’re happily married.

I think we both get to be a bit picky here, but if any of this resonates with you, or you feel like you may be what I’m looking for, please send me a chat telling me a little bit about you. I prefer Snapchat, but am open to Telegram if we hit it off.