You’re married or partnered, maybe even happily so, but something seems to be missing. Intimacy? That magic you once had? Spontaneity? Excitement? A combination of these things? And that void is only exacerbated by the daily grind of work or perhaps the demands of family life. At the end of the day, you look in the mirror and see someone whose inner flame longs to be rekindled with the excitement of experiencing someone new, vibrant, adventurous, caring, and motivated.

If the above describes you, then I may just be the spark to bring your flame back to life.

More about me:

I am 31, male, 6’, 208lbs., black hair, dark brown eyes, Asian, trimmed scruff, and tan skin. I workout regularly but certainly not built like an Abercrombie model. I like to think my most prized physical assets are my smile and a handsome face.

I have multiple degrees and work for a large hospital in town. I have racked up a fairly robust resume. Suffice to say, I place a lot of premium on ambition, accomplishment, and challenge in my life. I ideally would like someone who has the same perspective.

When I am not busy at work, I enjoy a fairly wide range of hobbies and activities. I absolutely enjoy cooking as it is my artistic outlet. I also enjoy any good history, horror, and true crime podcast or YouTube video. Being an alum of a school with strong collegiate athletics, I am a casual fan of college basketball. I also have a genuine passion for travel, racking up stickers and fridge magnets from all over this great nation and the world. Finally, I enjoy hitting the range for clay shooting or target practice.

As for you, I ideally would like you to be also partnered. This is something we would have in common and agree to not meddle with. I also would like you to be fairly masculine, stable, and understanding of boundaries. Most importantly, I would like you to be honest and open to getting to know each other.

If you’ve made it this far, you might as well just DM me. I would love to get a beer or coffee, get to know you, and perhaps take each other’s hand towards an exciting affair. Talk soon!