I spend a lot of time here lurking and I do occasionally message a few women who I feel there’s a potential connection with. All this effort to recapture the euphoric high of affairs past has led me here.

Unfortunately my recent Reddit experiences have been disappointing. I have met some amazing women but to be honest, they were either still hung up on an ex or our interests didn’t align. Either way, I remain optimistic and hopeful that this post reaches someone worthwhile. So here we go…

A little bit about me?

I’m 36 years old professional and I’m a father first and foremost. If race matters, I am bi-racial (Hispanic & Black) but physically I look like a lighter toned black guy with short wavy hair and a beard. Sticking with physical features, I stand around 5’11 tall with a football build that includes broad shoulders and a thicker frame. I enjoy working out and eating responsibly but living in Texas, it’s hard to resist a taco or some good Texas BBQ. Some of my interests include cooking, sports, working out, music, anything outdoors, & nerding out every now and then.

What am I looking for?

Everyone is searching for an amazing, open-minded, attractive & confident woman. I am no different and expect nothing less from a potential partner. As far as specifics, race and age does not matter, instead maturity, empathy, and communication is what’s important. A few more specifics would include being emotionally available, local to my area (or in Texas), open to meeting one day or fairly frequently, and experienced in being in an affair. Whether you’re low key crazy, clingy, or have some red flags, I just want you to be your true authentic self no matter what.

In closing, if you’re looking for someone who is an active communicator, open to sharing, respectful, and intentional, then I may be the guy for you. If you are someone who is attractive, intelligent, serious about building a connection and able to be vulnerable, then you may be the girl for me. If you’ve read this far, do not waste anymore time and send me a message. I look forward to hearing from you.