*Why am I here?

It’s been a good amount of time since my 2 year affair ended with her moving away.

I’ve had a few affairs in my life, but the ones that provide the greatest and deepest fulfillment are the ones that lasted over a year or more.

*What could it look like for us?

Get a sense of each other. Banter and laugh, establish connection.

I’m assertive, but, for the start, YOU will drive the early progress to the next “move”. When you want to move to Telegram. When you want to exchange pics. When you want to meet.

Then, once it’s clear we want this, I will drive things with your agreement. I’ll do the planning, ensure our “operational safety” and suggest how and when we will get together for our dates.

I’m clear from the start that I like and enjoy high-end BDSM intimacy at various times as we have our moments together. Not a must every time (or will it even be possible per se). But, I love creating in that erotic way and ensuring my partner has deep pleasurable experiences that taps into their arousal core.

*Who am I?

Physically: I’m 6’, white (tanned), dark hair and eyes, fit (for real), broad shoulders, muscular build. Most think I’m attractive.

Professionally: I’m a gent of means, own my own company, a top exec at a company, etc.

Personality: Conversational and a teasing humorous banter. Love to make people laugh. I’m a passionate person and love a deep connection with friends, family, and my lover.

I’m well travelled and have lived all over the world. Educated and experienced.

*Who am I looking for?

Someone attractive to me that I see potential of a long-term affair. I do well those who have a combination of knowing independence as well as a desire to release control to the one who earns it. I know who I’m attracted to fairly quickly and will not waste your time.

Let me know you’re interested (and that you have read this far) by answering both the title question and this question:

Would you rather… go on a spontaneous road trip with no destination in mind… or have a fancy dinner where you have to make up salacious backstories for everyone around?