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Let’s get the basics out of the way… I’m 54, MWM, tall, sturdy/stocky/athletic build, sat & pepper hair with more salt than pepper these days, gregarious & outgoing, Type A and a people person. I like to cook, am passionate about photography, and am currently training to run a half marathon.

What I’m looking for… an affectionate FWB situationship. I see posts looking for romance and feelings… well those take time and shared experiences to develop. Let’s start with a fun friendship & benefits. I want someone to get excited about seeing a few times per month, and someone who’s excited to see me! This is not going to be an exit from my current relationship or yours.

My partner is pretty vanilla in her bedroom tastes, so I’m looking for something a little spicier. Each person gets to define what that means but I’d say I’m typically more dominant without being a DOM; I consider myself pretty open minded sexually. I’ll try anything once! I’m definitely generous on the bedroom and want to ensure my partner is pleased (I find that I get more return invites that way!)

Who am I looking for… honestly I’m fairly open to having a conversation with anyone. I’ve had fun situations with women that were way too young for me but we clicked and it worked, and women that were more age appropriate (aka 40 ). Height, size, hair color, ethnicity - I don’t have a specific archetype that I’m looking for BUT there’s got to be some chemistry & friendship. That’s more important than finding someone that checks boxes on a list.

A little on the logistics… this can be the hardest part to finding a match. I’m fairly available during daytime working hours (let’s say 9:30a-5:30p) any day of the week. I’m self employed and manage my schedule however I see fit. Early mornings are definitely doable (I’m an early riser), as are the occasional evening (Monday through Thursday, rarely in the weekend though). Ideally we’d connect 2-3 times per month, but life happens so some months it may be more or less.

Obviously I can’t host, but I’m a fan of Airbnb apartments for discreet meetings.

That’s probably long enough! lol… if you’re interested, let’s chat! A simple DM can open the door to an interesting conversation.