This isn't my usual reddit account for obvious reasons . . . I posted this as more gender specific request about a month ago. But, I'm not entirely gender specific in my desires so why should my posts be? Couples I'm cool with too, but please make sure you have thoroughly discussed this with each other before contacting me and both on board 100%.

I'm not new to this, been seeking a more compatible secondary partner (new term I learned yesterday) for a few years with varying success. On the surface it seems like a pretty simple thing. Someone that has some overlapping interests, who is also bi, married, and has some flexibility 1 or 2 times a month for a few hours of down time and/or sporadic weekends. In reality, it's a bit harder to find someone that fits in with all that. Yes, I am looking for a sexual relationship, but overlapping interests are also important. Sex is just more fun when it's with someone I care about even in a friendly way.

• Here's me:
  • 51, bimwm, 160lbs, 69" tall (lol), "fit" and healthy (getting more fit). Naturally slim guy that just realized at 50yo that the slimness needs maintenance after a certain age!!
  • Professional, discreet with deep respect for privacy. My op-sec is grade A.
  • Indoor Interests: Live music (80s-00s indie/electronic), art, film, just talking about whatever while sitting at a nice bar or even nicer restaurant, watching soccer, motorsports, good beer/bourbon.
  • Outdoor interests: camping, hiking, cycling (road, gravel, want to explore MTB), pools/lakes/rivers, hippie hollow, traveling by motorcycle (if you ride also huge ). If you love camping/hiking/biking please let's talk, even in a platonic way.
• Ideal you:
  • 35ish-60ish, bi, married, healthy, you don't have to be ultra fit just take care of yourself a bit and be proud of your body.
  • Ideally you have kid(s), just another common ground, but not a deal breaker.
  • Discreet, respectful of privacy. Please get your op sec together, or I can help!
  • Hopefully you have some overlapping interests with mine.
  • In Austin, San Antonio, or parts in between and around. I travel to San Antonio very regularly.

TLDR: 51yo bimwm looking for a bi female, bi male, or trans for some camping and drinking and talking and sexy stuff. Escape a bit from our marriages and support each other.