This isn't my usual reddit account for obvious reasons . . . I know M4M posts are pretty rare on this sub. If there's a better sub for this, someone please let me know.

I'm not new to this, been seeking that "guy friend" for a few years with varying success. On the surface it seems like a pretty simple thing. Another guy that has some overlapping interests, who is also bi, married, and has some flexibility at the end of the week for a few hours of down time and/or sporadic weekends. In reality, it's a bit harder to find a guy that fits in with all that. Yes, I am looking for a sexual relationship with another guy, but those overlapping interests are also important. Sex is just more fun when it's with someone I care about even in a friendly way.

• Here's me:
  • 52, bimwm, 160lbs, 69" tall (lol), "fit" and healthy (getting more fit). Naturally slim guy
  • Professional, discreet, masculine, not out, deep respect for privacy. Sexual health is super important to me so I get tested regularly whether I'm sexually active or not. My op-sec is grade A.
  • Indoor Interest: Soccer, motorsports, good beer/bourbon, live music (80s-00s indie/electronic), just talking about whatever while sitting at a nice bar
  • Outdoor interests: camping, hiking, cycling (road, gravel, want to explore MTB), pools/lakes/rivers, hippie hollow, traveling by motorcycle (if you ride also huge ), fishing (but really just as a beer delivery system and excuse to be outside)
• Ideal you:
  • 40-60, bi, married, healthy, you don't have to be ultra fit just take care of yourself a bit. Not really attracted to super overweight guys, but definitely attracted to guys that are heftier than me
  • Ideally you have kid(s), just another common ground
  • Discreet, respectful of privacy. Get tested!
  • Hopefully you have some overlapping interests with mine
  • Local to me, or travel to Austin at least once a month. I'm open to travel later on, but just coordinating a meet up is just easier if you're here