Hey Reddit,

A little about me... I'm the sort of person who will always put others before myself. It can be a curse at times but for the most part I handle it well and it makes me feel good to make other feels better! I love gushing about how beautiful you look, how funny that joke was, or how insightful you are when we have conversation. I've been working on myself in recent years and am back in university for the first time in years and enjoying the intellectual stimulation.

What I want is someone to share these things with. I have fully embraced the things my SO is into, despite not exactly lining up with what I would say are my interests and she doesn't really seem to care. This extends well into the bedroom where sex still occurs but it has become quite stale... Many of my suggestions have either been ignored or just outright shot down.

The perfect AP would be someone who feels like they put their SO first and get little to nothing in return. Someone who's interests are similarly dismissed by their partner or maybe even laughed at. Someone who is feeling sexually oppressed and wants to explore different avenues.

I am Caucasian, about 5'8", dad bod, brown hair, blue eyes, with a neatly trimmed beard. I love to laugh and am more than comfortable laughing at myself. I am an accomplished cook and love eating and cooking new dishes whenever I can. I am definitely more of a homebody, taking comfort in a cuddly night in with lots of cuddles, laughs, and our favourite movies. There is obviously lots more to know about me but that is a start. I do have NSFW pictures on my profile if you're interested, feel free to take a look. It might sound cliche but I do love and appreciate all body types, shapes, and sizes. I am not nearly as concerned with looks, age, or race, so much as I am with someone who feels the same way that I do. There is a special place in my heart for short "girl next door types" and "mombods" and if you really want to know I consider myself more of an ass-man...but again don't let these descriptions stop you from messaging.

If anything here resonated with you, take a second and send me a chat or a message. Let's see where things go and have some fun!