Hey there. Want to know my fantasy? The one about the future? Listen up and maybe you’ll be similarly enthralled.

We’ve been talking to each other frenetically for a spell, we’ve met up, and the attraction is real. We’ve been on outdoor adventures together (hiking, running, cycling, or wandering somewhere new) and we know we like each other’s company. Maybe we’ve snuck off to a hotel to ensure that the tingles go all the way. They do. We trust each other to be discreet and not blow up each other’s lives. Things feel good and we text each other little things throughout the day.

Now it is time to take the next step. We’re heading out for our first overnight in a rented camper van. Up the coast to where the beaches are more desolate. We’ll drink on the beach and cuddle leaned back against the sand whilst staring at the waves. Our arms around each other in a moment stolen from time. Later, back in the van, we’ll indulge in kinky and fierce lewdness then throw open the back doors to cool our sated ardor to the cries of birds.

I’m a 45yo oakland based real dude with a happy and successful life. I’m 5’11”, 180, blue eyes, red/white beard, a shaved headed and tattoos. I like outdoors things, games, cocktails, wondering about the world and listening. I like moving my body in ways sexual and non. I am looking for someone who enjoys moving their body too. I love a tender cuddle, aggressive sex, and being physically spent. Open to all types and ages as long as we vibe well.

For a variety of reasons (which I’m happy to share) I have found myself looking for a pAP. I’ve had a relationship like this before, but it was long distance and the pandemic made it unsustainable.

Happy to exchange info, explore what’s possible, and see if we can be a match for each other.

I can’t wait to meet you. I know you’ll like the way I start a fire.