Not looking to change my situation at the moment. I also do have young kids. I don’t mind if you do or don’t, as long as you’re cool with me having them. I’m mixed race, 6’2”, 280lbs, I’ve put on the marriage weight and the dad weight, but I’m actively working to get to a better, healthier place. I love board games, card games, and occasionally video games. I like movies, TV, and reading. I’m just a sucker for a good story. I have an irreverent and sometimes dark sense of humor, but I’m also a deeply compassionate person.

I’m looking for someone I can talk to about literally anything; weird intrusive thoughts, silly ideas, heartbreaks, triumphs, all of it. I’d like to connect with someone who’s talkative and goofy and kind. Weight is not a dealbreaker, but I would prefer someone who is at least working on themselves too.

You don’t have to be local, but if you are, it would be cool to meet someone who wants to connect in person (down the road, if things go well) and not just online.

If you’ve read this far, pm to say hi!