I'm hoping to find a confidant, a friend, a lover. Someone local or within a reasonable distance to GR. A mutual connection, as I've come to realize, is very important to me. Obviously we don't need to share every detail of our lives, but knowing you as a person will only help when things move forward. Ultimately I want to share with you, the parts of me I keep hidden from those around me.

I want to enjoy our time together. Finding joy in our conversations as we move throughout our daily lives. And share pleasure and passion when the time comes. I want to escape the mundane with you and be a safe place for eachother.

As I said in the title I'm 41. I am educated, a professional with a job that has inconsistent hours. It's a blessing a and a curse in this lifestyle as it gives me freedom but could make things difficult depending on your schedule. I'm often on my phone a lot for work so I typically have the ability to text off and on easily throughout the day.

I'm willing to put the effort in to make something work with the right person. I just ask that you are too.

And as much as i want to explore your mind, I also want to explore ALL of you... Allow ourselves to express our sexual desires in ways maybe we can't with our spouse. Open those thoughts we've repressed as fantasy, allowing them to become reality. No judgement, just freedom of passion.

In an effort to be transparent, I'm 5'10, I have a "dad bod" but I'm not fat, I am a former college athlete. Little gray in the hair, lotta gray in the goatee.

I assume you get this too, but it's incredibly hard to get to know someone off an "ad" alone. I'm just trying to be honest and set the stage for conversation. If you've read this far and would like to chat, maybe introduce yourself and let me know what caught your eye.

Looking forward to your message.