I’m looking for a complete relationship where there is mutual affection and effort put forth AND sustained while also respecting boundaries.

I’m a catch! If we connect and there’s a mutual attraction I will bring you joy and meaning to your life. But, since I have a couple of these relationships under my belt, I’m discerning and confidently know what’s worth it and what’s not. So, I stay guarded until my gut says you’re a safe and trusting person. My goal is to have a long term, exclusive AP.

About me: Petite, blonde, green eyes, and above average fitness. I like to dress well and present myself smartly.

I’m married with a child and am mostly here for all the typical reasons but I won’t tolerate spouse bashing on either side. I’m not opposed to discussing our home lives in time. Being a supportive confidant is an essential component here.

I like to share in activities when we’re unable to physically be together— If you enjoy cooking, reading, good tv, and/or listening to music, we could share recipes, have our own secret book club, playlist, or a show that we watch “together”. These are all things that I believe help us to connect and grow together.

A critical gap in my marriage is any semblance of desire. If you’re into me, I want to hear it and hear it often. The same will be reciprocated on my end.

I have great friends who I’m close with but I will never share this part of my life with them or anyone. I’m discreet and will take this to the grave. You should too.

I won’t entertain anyone supporting MAGA or who is MAGA-apathetic. In fact, if you’re not at minimum appalled at the state of affairs right now, don’t bother me. I need someone who understands the apocalypse we’re living in and wants to ride it out with me.

I’m in the Hudson Valley and not opposed to a LDA within a few hours of each other. I travel often for work and that provides both a cover and flexibility. From my perspective, some distance provides for stronger OPSEC and sustains a desire for one another.

My bonus person: Aged 40-early 50s, preferably tall, have all your hair (although if you can rock a bald head that’s cool too), great oral hygiene, and fit. I’m not looking for a gym rat but you need to take care and pride in your appearance. I prefer those with olive complexions and dark hair but it’s not a deal breaker. You’ve affaired before, a non-smoker, drink alcohol in moderation, and DDF.

You’re intelligent, well-informed, and both emotionally intelligent and emotionally available. You also should have the time, finances, freedom and flexibility to put into this. I expect to chat via text daily but within reason since we’re both working professionals. I’d prefer someone with kids to have that mutual understanding of parenting and to support one another.

We can start chatting here and if things go well, we can move to telegram and exchange SFW pics. If your initial outreach is low effort I probably won’t respond. Does all this sound too serious? It is but I’m pretty fun actually.