The Talking Heads’ “Once in a Lifetime” is a song that I wouldn’t call my favorite but I like it and I can relate to some of its humorous lyrics especially as the song evolves. I hope you can relate too.

So yeah, I’m at the end of my 40’s, married, kids, cars, home, successful. I’m not scratched or dented yet, but I know nature has its way with everyone at any given time. I’ve followed the traditional path in life and I’m happy with the results, but alas I have neglected areas of my life that need fulfillment. I hope you do as well. My marriage is good, my SO is a wonderful person. I treat her well and we respect each other… but our passion is fading and we are slowly shifting towards a brother-sister dynamic or perhaps awesome roommate mode. My libido remains high in the meantime. Again, I hope you can relate.

My goal is to find an pAP who is interested in getting to know each other online and perhaps eventually in person to see if we are compatible as AP’s. It’s easier said than done so I’ll do my best to present myself and my availability accurately to help you determine my candidacy.

I stand 5’9”, fit build at 49, 165#, East Asian / Polynesian / Caucasian. I present as mixed with a head of full black hair and some gray trying to push its way in, moderate body hair, clean cut and shaven, PNW outdoorsy in style. I don’t use drugs. I’m not much into TV or watching sports but I enjoy the occasional movie and definitely enjoy music. I like to be active so I play sports regularly and enjoy being in the outdoors. I enjoy cooking. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I consider myself successful at life, stable, conversational, informed in a variety of topics, easy going but orderly in aesthetic.

I don’t live in Seattle. 1 hour south would approximate my location. My availability depends on how close you live to me. I’d be available to meet 2x per month but more frequently if we live reasonably close to each other. I don’t intend to fall in love but I need to connect with you on an emotional level to do this. This is not my first time stepping out but my last time was years ago. Importantly: I’m only interested in a woman who wants to be exclusive with me. I will be exclusive with her. I tested at planned parenthood and I’m std free. I have also undergone a successful vasectomy.

You can reach me via chat or DM. Let’s start a conversation to see if we connect.