Do you remember that delicious thrill when your phone buzzes, and you can't help but eagerly check who’s on the other side? That moment before a date when your heart races, and you find yourself pacing, anticipation taking over? Or that feeling when you wake up with a smile, replaying the spark of last night in your mind? Now imagine all the above in super secret setup full of endorphins!

I am trying to find someone who craves that extra bit of connection. I find Reddit superior to any other online domain.

So, a little about me: I’m 38, married for 10 years, no kids, living in London. I'm 5'9", with dark brown eyes, black hair that has a touch of silver (a sign of wisdom, I like to think), and a well-kept beard. I work out regularly and burn of all the pork ribs :) Not a big drinker but an Old Fashioned is welcome any time. I am available to chat pretty much all day and I usually reply the same day. I prefer snowboarding in the winter, and unwinding on a beach in the summer. I can't quite handle horror movies, but I promise to make you laugh instead. I am happy to chat about anything s

I think I am Reddit approved as I've been called “handsome” and “charming” by a few women with great taste—flattery that never goes unnoticed.

But it's more than looks I'm after... it's that undeniable spark. A like-minded soul who’s open to exploring this together. I would like you to live or commute frequently to London so we can meet and make this last. Just online won't work. I would like you to be serious about this and to be looking for something long term. And I will want to know everything about you!

Let’s take it slow, get to know each other, and see where the chemistry takes us, at whatever pace feels right.

I am not fast about the title of this; Affair, NSA, FWB call it whatever. Quality time is what I am after, not an ONS.

One thing you should know—I don’t ghost. If it’s not working for me, I’ll be upfront. No mind games, just clear communication.

Finally, I have one small ask. If you read this and you didn't find it half-bad, please upvote. Due to the amount of posts, the M4F go down the list in minutes.

Good posts deserve a bit more time to be discovered.

Or yes, get in touch :P