Here I am again, hoping the right person sees this and thinks, This is exactly what I’ve been looking for.

I know how this goes. I’ve had great conversations that faded, connections that didn’t quite click, and moments that burned bright but didn’t last. I’m not looking for something casual that comes and goes—I want something real, something that lingers in the back of your mind all day.

I’m married and not looking to change that, and I respect that you may be in the same situation. But that doesn’t mean I don’t want passion, excitement, and a connection that actually means something. I want someone who gets it—who understands that while we may not be each other’s first priority, we are a priority to each other. If we’re doing this, we should both feel wanted, desired, and seen. If you put in effort, I promise you won’t be disappointed in what I give back.

Discretion is a must, of course. But within that, I want the kind of affair that pulls you in—the one that has you stealing moments whenever possible. Texts throughout the day, sneaky phone calls when we can, finding time to meet even when it seems impossible. And when we do? Those moments where the rest of the world fades away, where just being close is enough to take your breath away. The kind of connection where you count down the days (or hours) until the next time.

A little about me: I’m 40, 5’8, confident, easygoing, and a great conversationalist. I’m from right outside of Hershey, so please be somewhat nearby. I like good conversation, a bit of teasing, and a connection that keeps us both coming back for more. I stay active, enjoy the outdoors when I can, and love catching a good game or comedy show. I can be laid-back and relaxed, but I also know how to turn up the intensity when it counts.

If you’re looking for something that feels as good as it is exciting, let’s talk. We can chat for a few minutes or for hours—let’s just see where it takes us.