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Ever feel like you’re just going through the motions? I do too. I’m a 37-year-old Indian-American guy who’s spent 23 years in the US, built a steady life as a marketer (with a couple of degrees in science and business to prove I can think logically, at least most days), and been married for 10 years. Lately, though, the spark has been missing—a dead bedroom for 4–5 years leaves me wondering if we’ve both just settled into routines that don’t quite fit.
I’m not here for a reckless fling, but for a genuine, low-key connection that reminds us both of who we really are. I’m talking about secret lunches, spontaneous dinners, or even a quick getaway that doesn’t upend our worlds, just gives us a moment to be seen beyond our everyday roles.
A bit about me:
- I keep it simple with short, dark hair (spiked today, curly tomorrow), an average build at 5’6”, and a passion for the offbeat—ask me about the time I survived Europe without a phone or my DIY bar crawl in Spain.
- I’m a proud vegetarian who enjoys a good meal and a real conversation.
- And yes, I hold some strong opinions—if you voted for Trump, we might not see eye to eye (sorry, not sorry).
I’m looking for an educated, independent woman who’s tired of just being “wife” or “partner” and is ready to reclaim the parts of herself that get lost in the routine. No explicit photos, no pressure—just honest, discreet conversation and the possibility of something more, where your pleasure and voice come first.
So tell me: what’s that one moment that made you feel truly alive? I’d love to hear your story and see if we can rediscover that spark together.
If you’re up for an honest conversation about the parts of life that often go unspoken, drop me a message. I’m here, ready to listen and to connect.
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