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Quick down and dirty of my situation. I don't have chemistry with my partner anymore, and a dead bedroom has turned into a dead, well, everything. I miss having a connection with someone, one that translates from the emotional and intellectual to the sexual side. I'd like to cultivate something like that with someone new, and I'm not looking to change anyone's situation. I want to start things slow and really get to know one another, I like learning about what makes someone unique, an individual. I will say though, as with any situation, I do believe physical attraction is important so I'd like to exchange pics early. I do kindly ask that you be honest with yourself, if you don't value a healthy lifestyle and fitness, we won't match on that dynamic. I don't need a fitness model, but someone that values that in their life is quite important to me.
Important Note: please do not contact me unless you're invested in the idea of an actual, online or in person affair. Know what you want. I've had too many interactions with women recently where after 24 hours of talking, they decide this is not for them entirely and/or, change their mind about what they're seeking. If you come into my DMs, please be confident and secure in what you want. I'm not entertaining anyone who is wishy washy about this, again. It's rather discouraging putting yourself out there time after time, only to have the person decide they're too scared to try, or unsure of what they need.
A little about me:
Physically: tall, muscular and athletic build. I do enjoy fitness and take care of myself, have been told I'm conventionally attractive. I preface the physical because I know that's important to most, and I also prefer someone who values the same in taking care of themselves through fitness and overall life health.
I believe I'm well educated, I have a few degrees under my belt and I am in data analytics with a few professional licenses. I am a bit of a reserved individual and book nerd, preferring to read on a night in than go out and party. Avid outdoorsman, as I like to hunt, backpack, and take trips into the wilderness frequently. That being said, I can be a big homebody as well. I enjoy cinema, movies off the beaten path, cult classics, independent films that may have been missed by most. Sarcastic and dry sense of humor all over, but quirky, weird to some. I'm currently teaching myself how to code.
If you think we'd hit off, I'd love to hear from you. I won't waste your time if we talk and I'm not interested, as we all have our unique preferences. Trust me, I'm tactful about it. I'm not for everyone either. Also, I don't mind if you have kids and aren't just married.
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