Hey there New England women of r/affairs,

I'm a well-rounded and adventurous married guy looking for an ongoing, discreet connection with a woman who values a balance between mind, body, and everything in between. This is not my first time. And while I don’t mind if it’s yours, just please be serious, have your OPSEC on point and understand what you’re getting yourself into.

Me? I’m 48 and 5’10” with a pretty active lifestyle— whether that’s working out, hiking, or just exploring new places and things in my personal time. Fitness is a big part of my routine, but I don’t define myself by it, and enjoy women of all shapes and sizes. I work hard, but I make time to enjoy myself and I’m always looking for new ways to keep life exciting and fresh.

In my free time, I’m all about trying new things- I tend to dive headlong into anything that gets my heart rate up (in more ways than one 😉). I love deep, engaging conversations about everything from politics to the sciences, but I’m also totally down for easygoing chats about our favorite hobbies, binge-worthy shows, or the latest books we’ve read. I’m looking for someone who, like me, is both curious about learning new things and enjoys a mix of intellect and playfulness.

You? I’m hoping to connect with a confident, adventurous, and passionate woman who knows what she wants. Someone who values discretion, enjoys a good balance of mental stimulation, and isn’t afraid to embrace their sexuality. I’m open to someone who appreciates that an affair isn’t just about physical connection but also trust, excitement, and the thrill that goes along with having a secret thing just for the two of us.

Us? I have a very healthy sexual appetite, kink friendly, very open minded, and I’m all about chemistry and passion. I’m hoping to find someone who feels the same—someone who enjoys a mix of intensity, playfulness, and mutual satisfaction. It’s important to me that we have a strong, fun connection, both emotionally and physically. When we’re together, it should be a safe, exciting place to explore and indulge.

If you're adventurous, and looking to rediscover that feeling of newness and excitement, send a message/chat! I’m looking forward to meeting someone who’s ready to dive into something discreet, thrilling, and deeply fulfilling.

—I’m excited to get to know you!