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Marriage is complicated. That’s why we’re here. Not to end things, but to explore what might be missing. Perhaps, things will end eventually or maybe the exploration will make us a better partner in the end. That’s what I’m looking for. I’m here to become better.
Some might think my logic is twisted here and that’s ok. But I’m looking for someone to connect with so that we can add value to each other’s lives. I want to build a relationship where we can share things that we might not otherwise feel safe to share. A relationship where we feel supported and encouraged. Someone who is fighting their own challenges along with me. Someone who wants to exchange thoughts and ideas. And yeah, maybe even explore our sexuality.
What does this look like? I’m not totally sure. I’m thinking deep conversations about life, explaining the book you are reading, giving each other advice on problems, sharing progress at the gym, sharing fantasies, and maybe talking dirty in a way that you wouldn’t normally do. We can be a safe space for each other.
Ok I understand it might be a lofty idea. I suspect we’ll probably complain about our coworkers and joke around a lot too.
A bit about me: I like the outdoors, I work out regularly, I’m pretty handy around the house, and I’m also an artist. I like horror movies and heavy metal music. I read a decent amount and I’ve gotten really into stoicism over the last few years.
If you’re interested shoot me a brief message with a bit about yourself.
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