Hello! I’m not good at witty titles but I can be witty. A few months into being 40, don’t look it. Been told by a few ladies here that I am handsome. This is maybe my third or fourth post and I’m going to change it up a bit by starting out what I have to offer.

I’m supportive, a good listener. I can be an ear to vent, a shoulder to cry on, and I’m also an amazing hugger. It’s an odd compliment but I’ve gotten so many of how good I hug. I’m very understanding, I like to look at situations unbiased and from multiple perspectives. I have a wide sense of humor, big fan of sarcasm with a touch of sass. Very good vibes to be around.

I’m looking to meet one lady and develop a foundation of friendship to grow into more. I can make time for this. Naturally, there will be some times when I won’t be able to be as responsive but I will let you know ahead of time. Would love to have someone who we can talk about everything together. The normal stuff, work, life, things you want, miss, etc. As well as the “spicy” things but that’s once we are comfortable.

I’m married, one young child, 5’9, stocky but still hwp. I started working out again. Used to lift a lot in my younger days. I plan on dropping some pounds for all the spring/summer time activities. I have a lot of hobbies that I don’t have enough time for but I plan on making time for them as well. I do have a beard so if that’s not your thing, cool.

I’m looking for someone who hasn’t been getting what they need. The emotional needs. Nobody likes to feel unwanted. I’m kind of on the giving side (emotionally & physically), I like to appreciate someone. As far as age, I don’t think I can go lower than 35, I don’t mind older as well. Size is no concern either, I only ask that you are comfortable in your own skin. My goal is long term, in person (when time permits), wether it’s just to hang like getting a bite to eat, a movie, bowling (been years) , coffee or what ever. Open to exchanging pics early on if you’d like.

Not looking to change our situation but to add to it. I’ve had an affair in the past from meeting someone in real life but they wanted to change situations so I figured looking in this place would benefit better as there seems to be a similar goal here. So while I’m not new to this, I’m also not a rookie. Feel free to reach out if interested and we can talk and go from there!! Thanks!!!