Asian, born here. Cantonese if you know the difference. Athletic/lean/muscular figure. 6' 175-180# “crossfit” body type. Not a dad bod. Stereotypes are wrong. Sometimes people think I look like Keanu Reeves (or use to). I could pass as a mix I guess. I don't think so but I'll go with it.

Me:

Married but life events have changed my perspective on life. You would not be my first AP and I don't sleep with anyone (nor need to). I'm snipped so no kids for me (I have no kids). Animal lover. I'm tired of being conventional and need some adventures. I don't play games and I'm drama free. Looking for good conversations, connection and if it works out a physical connection.

I'm not seeking to change your situation. Don't change mine.

I read a lot (fiction/scifi/history/self-improvement/etc) so sharing a good read is a good way to get to know someone. I don’t tiktok or spend much time on social media. I stay away from politics, but I’m left of center (no MAGA for me). I spend as much time as I can outdoors (often solo to clear my mind) but always welcome company. I volunteer a lot of time as a first responder to help those in need; one of many passions.

I'm generally attracted to asians (broadly) or white (broadly). Prefer someone local. I do travel, but I won't say where here but it’s in-state and not LA. If you want something regular, it has to be local.

I don’t ghost. Be an adult. If you want a friend, be a friend. If you want a FWB, the first word still means “friend”.

You:

Enjoy the outdoors (jogging/hike/surf/pickle/bouldering). HWP. You should be looking to find connections in novel ways. You're looking for an escape for everyday life. You want an activity partner outside your partnership for a different physical and a different mental connection. Your opsec needs to be on point.

You probably should be attached with some freedom to do your own thing that fits your normal routine. Having an outdoor activity we can share works the best.

I’ll be as forthcoming as you’re willing to open up, so you can take the lead. I respect your privacy.