This is my 2nd attempt in a few years at this, so I’ll do my best to be as specific, when specific is needed, so that I don’t waste any of your valuable time.

To start, I am in my mid-40’s, am not originally from TX but have lived here in the northern burbs of Dallas for a bit. I am, like most of you I would assume, in a good marriage that is lacking an element or two, and am not looking to change my home life. I have a career I’m passionate about that also, luckily, provides a lot of flexibility in my day to day life which means I actually CAN make time for something, assuming I find whatever it is, or whomever, I am searching for.

Emotional and mental chemistry are vital for me to want to endeavor towards a physical relationship, so if you just want a man to get a hotel by the hour type place, never have any real conversation, and just screw like monkeys, that’s not going to be me but I assure you, read the other 100 guys posting today and you will find them. I am witty, and abundantly sarcastic, and if you have a hard time laughing because you are too woke to realize a joke, also, keep moving on.

Physically, I am tall-ish (6’2”), Caucasian, not in horrible shape yet not a gym goer who is what the ladies who need a 6-pack are going to desire. I have ink, but you would never know, nor is any of it in bad taste. Nice smile, full head-ish of hair, and have facial hair. On the flip side, I do not have a “type” per se. I am generally not into BBW but am not also seeking a rail thin size 2 or something. I tend to go more for the “girl next door” thing. Asian, Hispanic, Caucasian are generally what I am drawn to. A cute face with a great smile is a fantastic start.

What I want: Something to fill the void that my marriage does not provide. That could mean a stimulating conversation over lunch, going to a movie and ditching work for a few hours, jumping out of a plane together, or yes, all levels of extreme intimacy. Intimacy is a BIG aspect of my search, and for you that haven’t figured it out yet, that does not automatically mean sex. Sure, it’s a component, and a rather fun one when done right with someone who you mesh with, but I am talking all the way from mental intimacy, to a light touch, to a hand on the thigh. From a light kiss to a passionate make out session that lasts for an hour. From a simple massage to me going down on you in the dressing room at a store (oh I never said I didn’t have my fun/adventurous side).

I am flexible on duration/frequency, as that needs to mesh for both individuals, and I know I need someone who is not looking for a change in their existing relationship.

Anything I left out, just ask. I am an open minded guy who wants a true spark.