Well Hello There,

I'm ecstatic that you have happenstance upon my post. If you are a male or a trans, while I mean absolutely no disrespect, I just am not interested. Sorry, it is not a matter of convincing, just a matter of one's preference.

Now, let me be clear in that I do adamantly love my wife. My situation will absolutely not change meeting you. If you think you can or will change my situation, you will be sadly mistaken. Let's be real, we're both mature adults, and hopefully in a similar situation, so let's just keep this discrete.

I am looking for a wife who has been neglected intellectually and sexually. And when I mean sexually, I don't just mean you performing sex on him. I mean actual real love, connection, that forceful sexual pleasure and energy, that arduous force between two bodies in space for a moment in time that feels like infinity. The heat of two bodies, the feel of skin to skin more than just on lips or on cheeks.

That's the sort of "sexual neglect" I mean. Two lovers should be, well, loving. I will not leave my wife. And you will not leave your husband. You love your husband as much as I love my wife. And you and I understand as leaders and educators that we are all human, and we do human things. But part of that is the need to be held, to be touched, by those who we can trust with our little idiosyncrasies and pleasures and pains.

I'm not looking for a soul mate or a home wrecker. I am looking for a fellow educator, who has happened to find themselves intellectually alone, who just wants to share in a few thoughts, and deep and hard physical connection.

I love to talk for hours over drinks, or even better, over 420. I am DDF (obviously other than 420), I am looking for you to be as well. Please be mature about this. I am not looking for the next happy forever after.

I am looking for an arrangement with someone where we can connect on an intellectual, and highly physical and sexual level. I have a high sex drive, I love to pleasure with my fingers and tongue, and I am quite open minded to trying new things (however, only slowly, and in progression).

Let's connect here. DM me. My ideal woman:

-As mentioned, a married but neglected/betrayed teacher, professor, or educator who is a mom.

-I am open minded about demographics and figure. However, the type of woman who really gets me going intellectually and sexually: apple shaped who weigh around 160lb - 200lbs who love to wear socks and who really loves to take it while laying down, grabbing my back, and lightly scratching it, trying to hold your moans in, but then ripping them out loud in a deep progression back and forth until finally letting it rip out loud.

-Live near/in Bergen County. Ideally be someone who can host while the kids are off to daycare/in another spot. That would be ideally an awesome time to chat and maybe watch some movies, and let the general flow of the room take us away.

-Be willing to actually have conversation. While I'm a highly touch and feel based kinda guy, i also love to chat back and forth. It's kinda the whole fun in, well, the touching :) I want to have a conversation. Get your thoughts about the universe. And then, make a physical connection that our parners have, for lack of a better word, led us to have a black hole in our sexual and intellectual lives.

-Be firm about the rule about our partners: you have no intention of leaving your husband. I have no intention of leaving my wife. Neither partner needs to know about the other. That simple.

-While not mandatory, I would love to be with someone who is willing to explore outside of hte box sexually. For example, anal, or threesome, just to name a few. I'm not saying this is what I'm looking for, but it would be cool to find an AP who thinks sexually outside of the box curiously, but responsibly so.

I look forward to receiving your DMs. Some of my (nudes) are scattered throughout my page. Feel free to send pics, but honestly, Im looking to chat first, and work up to that slowly. Thx:)