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For most of the last three years I’ve woken up realizing I’ve made a life mistake and wondering what it might take to fix it. Been married for almost 25 years and now that our kids are mostly grown, it’s clear we’re completely incompatible in almost every way.
I’m looking for someone who loves music enough to be able to suggest new albums or shows to attend together, who reads fiction and always has a book to recommend, and who enjoys touch and the feel of a man. I’m fit, look about ten years younger than my age, have an interesting career, love to play music and write. I’m kind, deferential, listen well and respond appropriately, have a quick sense of humor, emotionally adult with little patience for mind games, and love San Francisco but crave travel to new places - no more repeat trips.
On the downside, I don’t like watching TV, shopping, or clothes with logos. I can be passive-aggressive and messy and I don’t always shave evenly. I’m a fast driver and my cars have lots of dings in them. I sometimes don’t talk much and appreciate silence and contemplation; other times I can’t shut up and can have rolling conversations that last for hours. I have an uneasy relationship with the passage of time and nostalgia makes me sad.
Perfectly comfortable alone but would love a companion who chooses to be with me instead of treating it like an obligation. Unlike most guys who post on here, I may actually be looking to change my situation, but not until my last child is out of the house in a couple years. Hope to hear from someone who appreciates honesty.
Also, if you just want to get drunk and go to bed, I’m down with that.
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