Buckle up, because this is going to be a long read!

Firstly, allow me to introduce myself… I’m C-mum of two, married, and searching for my perfect AP. I’m here because I believe in finding something real—an emotional and physical connection that goes beyond surface-level interactions. Life is about meaningful experiences, and I’m seeking someone who is open to exploring a bond that’s both intense and lasting, both physically and emotionally.

About me:

• 5ft 5, with long brown hair, grey eyes, and curves (size 18). I’ll be honest—I’m a little self-conscious at times, especially after years of neglect, if that’s an issue, I’m probably not for you.

• Being a mum means I have little time to myself. I’ve spent years putting everyone else first, and wanting an AP is part of my journey of reclaiming my own space and desires.

• I love music—Indie, Britpop, and Rock are my go-to genres, but I’ll listen to pretty much anything depending on the mood. It would be great to go to more gigs!

• I’m not big on wild nights out anymore. I’d much prefer a cozy night in with the right person. But when I do go out, I love finding a nice bar or restaurant— you’ll find me with the cocktail menu.

• I’m incredibly kind and generous. I love spoiling the people I care about and making them feel special.

I know exactly what I want—I won’t settle for anything less than perfect. This isn’t my first rodeo, and I’ve learned what I don’t want the hard way. What I do want is an all-consuming, addictive affair that gives me butterflies and makes my heart race.

About you:

• I’m looking for someone 35-45 years old. Taller than me is a must. I’m not picky about looks, but physical attraction is key. I’ll be asking for face pics early, so please be comfortable with that.

• You must be married and have children. This is non-negotiable.

• You must want this in real life, not just online. I’m very tactile and crave physical contact once we get comfortable. Ideally, I’d like someone near the North West (Manchester/Liverpool area), but anywhere within a couple of hours is doable. UK ONLY.

• You must be emotionally available and not afraid of feelings. I don’t want to waste time with someone who’s emotionally distant.

• You must be in a position to have an affair. I know this sounds crazy, but so many guys aren’t. If it’s your first time, you’ve thought it through and are comfortable with it. Please be in a situation where your partner isn’t constantly monitoring your phone or questioning your messages. I don’t want a cake eater; I want someone who’s truly in it for the long haul.

• You should be available to chat most days—text, photos, voice notes, and calls. I know we all have commitments, but if you’re going to be unavailable for a while, just let me know. I work from home a lot, so I have time to chat during the day.

• Be equally as kind and generous. I’d love to send secret gifts.

If you’re ready for something that gives you butterflies, makes your heart race, and has you looking forward to every secret message and stolen moment, then let’s see if we’re a match. No games, just something real, intense, and unforgettable. If that sounds like your kind of thing, let’s dive in!