Been here a long time (at least by the standards of searching for A(P) partner in rhyme ) or maybe not, really depends.

A 41 year old married man here looking for a woman where both can have not only interesting and fun conversations but hot and passionate sex too. I would love to let my guard down and relax around you, and I offer the same in return. It's important that you're either local to Toronto or can come to Toronto for meet-ups (Yes, frequent travellers to Toronto are welcome).

Me: Conventionally attractive, straight, lean & fit, tall, open-minded, very easy going. Have a good, settled life in general except for the DB situation at home. Looking for one person to build something ongoing. Not into sexting, if that matters to you. Availability for intimate meet-ups is typically around/after end of work on weekdays (we can figure out together what works for both).

My APs have been wildly different and we cherished the togetherness, which is what matters. I find a range of women attractive, tall to short (not less than 5'2" though coz I am 6' ), slim to curvy, and so on. Attraction is subjective and personality matters more to me. You may have a different opinion, maybe a check list of preferences, a list of deal breakers; let's talk about all these early on.

Dealbreakers for me: Drug users. Smokers. Heavy Drinkers. Nitpickers. Bad Hygiene. Looking for online only/chat buddies/SD. Spouse bashing. Don't have time/means for an affair. Women who cannot figure out how/when/where to meet. Looking to be put on a pedestal. Don't understand that being discreet is necessary. Get offended very easily. Have lousy OPSEC. Can't come to Toronto for meet-ups.

If the above piqued your interest and you want to know more, let's chat!!