I’m not here to talk politics or request moderators to ban X or Facebook or any of that jazz. I’m just here to meet a woman. Consider this your safe space to escape all of that and just live in the here and now with a man that doesn’t have time to sweat things he cannot control.

I’m a well educated, married man that is looking for a married woman who is searching for the spark to light the flame inside you. I know the wick has burnt out and you think it is gone, under the wax forever. But it’s not. Don’t throw it out. You just need me to clear out that dead space that has caused it to be void and light it up again.

What do you desire? What are your dreams? I want to know and experience all of that with you. I’m emotionally available and have the bandwidth to give it. I currently work from home but some recent changes will like result in me having to drive to an office in downtown Birmingham soon, which is fine with me. Though I travel on occasions, mainly along the Gulf coast.

What do you do for a living? Do you have a career? Are you an always busy SAHM? Maybe you are in between jobs and trying to determine if even going back is worth the hassle.

I’m looking for a woman between the ages of 38 and 50. That seems to be the sweet spot for me with generational commonalities and maturity. If you have kids, that’s a plus, as I have them too.

I’m physically active and trying to get fit. I’m 6’ tall, 225 lbs, I’m part Italian, so no hair really on my head, hazel eyes that change colors, and a great smile. Prefer you not be bbw, but mom bods are beautiful. Fit and in shape is always a plus too.

I enjoy cooking, going to breweries, minor league baseball games, college sports, MLB games, hiking at Oak Mountain and Ruffner, and history. I don’t read much recreationally because I do that often with work. I do enjoy going to movies, trying different flavored coffees, and making up new cocktails.

Send me a message and let me know if you were jealous of our friends to the south that got snow or happy for them.