As stated above- I’m not entirely sure what I’m looking for. I’m in a db situation with my husband and I’d love to meet someone in a similar boat. It’s defeating to say the least- especially as a female. My husband is LL and I’m HL- very mismatched sex drives.

About me:

I lean analytic and quiet. I looooove hosting dinner parties. I love attending to and learning about plants. Despite being fairly quiet, I love socializing and have a TON of female friendships. I workout almost daily— mainly lift. I love hiking and love to find new trails. Every summer, I plan a hiking/caving trip with all of our friends- it’s a blast!

I’m highly involved in my kids schools and social activities. We’re involved in allll the sports and clubs. Im on all the boards and everyone knows me. I love it and wouldn’t change a thing.

Physically, I’m fit for my age. I’m HWP and toned. I take care of myself and wear makeup. I always have my nails done too (definitely “girly” in that sense). I love dressing up and going on dates— but I also love being comfy in sweats at home.

About you:

Ideally, I’d like to find my male counterpart. I love a strong communicator. A guy who leans analytical/quiet/gentle. Intelligence is really sexy to me.. so if you know a lot in your field and you love talking about it, I’d love to listen! Love a good dad who’s involved with his kids.

Physically, I’m not too picky. I just want someone who’s healthy and works out— someone who can keep up with all the things I like to do!! Also, HL is a must.

General info: I tend to get along best with PEs and MDs. Not ruling anyone out based on career— but that’s just who I tend to communicate best with. Also communicate well with ages 37ish-45ish. Anyone under 30 is a hard no. Anyone over 49- also hard no. I’ve found there’s just not enough compatibility.

If interested, let’s get started with a question.

Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button in your life?