I’m a 32-year-old professional in the Tyler area, I'm missing the butterflies and excitement that come from genuine chemistry. My marriage has turned into more of a roommate situation with no real spark, no romance. I miss that anticipation before seeing someone and the rush of excitement when I can’t wait to hear from someone. If you feel the same, maybe we can be each other’s escape without upending our entire lives.

I’m white, 6’0”, around 203 lbs (working toward 180), with brown hair and grey eyes. I stay active by hitting the gym five days a week, hiking, fishing, and practicing for competition shooting events. I also love tinkering with cars and experimenting with new recipes in my free time.

I’m seeking a discreet, long-term connection with someone who’s also married, so you understand the need for respect and confidentiality. No single women, please. I want more than just a casual encounter; I’m after a genuine bond that makes us both feel alive again. I’d love for this to grow organically, with daily chats about our day-to-day lives, letting our connection deepen naturally. I do have a type, however, at this point I am seeking genuine connection more than anything.

I frequently travel between Tyler and DFW, I’m flexible about meeting. I can chat throughout the day, usually have weekend availability as well (Using Signal is a bonus), and I’m willing to drive up to 1.5–2 hours or meet halfway. If we click, I can also arrange a hotel if/and when things escalate to that point.

Let’s keep this respectful and fun, never interfering with each other’s personal lives. I know life is hectic, and I’ll always respect your time and boundaries. If this resonates with you, I’d love to know the last spontaneous or exciting thing you did that reminded you there’s more to life than just a boring daily routine.

Reach out, and let’s see if we can rediscover that missing spark, together.