Who I Am: I’m a 38-year-old professional who’s focused, educated, and fairly successful in my career. I stay active and thrive on new experiences—whether it's trying new restaurants, hiking in the great outdoors, exploring museums, or ticking off items on a friend's bucket list. I enjoy connecting on a deeper level, both intellectually and physically, and I’m looking to cultivate meaningful connections in all areas of life.

Unfortunately, after years of navigating a challenging relationship, I’ve found myself in a situation where intimacy has diminished, and I’m seeking someone who can meet my needs in a way that’s respectful, discreet, and mutually beneficial. I’m DDF (drug- and disease-free), have impeccable discretion (OPSEC), and know exactly what I’m looking for.

Who I’m Looking For: I’m looking for someone who takes care of themselves, is intelligent (nerdy or intellectual types especially welcome!), and is successful in their own career. Age-wise, I’m most interested in someone in their 30s or 40s, and ideally, you’re based in or near North Jersey.

I’m seeking a connection that’s built on trust, shared interests, and genuine chemistry. This could include everything from thoughtful conversations and meals out, to activities that our partners or friends may not share an interest in, and yes, an exciting and adventurous side, too. Discretion is key for both of us.

What I’m Looking For: Ultimately, I’m hoping to build a friendship that has the potential to grow into something more. I’m looking for someone who is thoughtful in their communication, enjoys spontaneous adventures, and values a connection that balances fun with depth.

If this sounds like something that could align with your interests, I’d love to hear from you. Share your favorite book or movie, or if you’re feeling brave, tell me about one you didn’t like and why.

Looking forward to connecting!