With thousands of short and ill-conceived posts on all platforms. I’m writing something of length to help respect both of our time and hopefully give you some faith in reaching out.

The basics are that I’m a 35 year old Male, I stand at 6ft on the dot. We can measure if that’s a dealbreaker for you. Although if height is a dealbreaker, I don’t feel we’ll get on. I use the gym regularly, but I don’t have ambition to look any sort of way. I keep active to ensure I can participate in life and activity, and I have an average body and build overall. I read daily and watch 3 or 4 movies a week. I love music as well and enjoy chats about culture. I’m equally inclined to go out until 3am or stay inside. I love conversing and consider myself open and interested in the people around me.

I’m in a relationship. I’m not exiting it. I’m happy to talk about that aspect of my life in more detail outside of the internet. I don’t want that to be a black cloud that hangs over all moments. However, I recognize that it’s impossible to avoid it being mentioned, and would rather face that conversation head-on

In a perfect world. You are also in a relationship, but at the least, you should be comfortable with me being in one. I don’t mind talking for a long period online before rushing into anything. I think it’s critical that even if we have some ideas that aren’t aligned, we have enough in common to be interesting to one another. And we share the ability to talk about things openly and plainly. That takes trust, and trust takes time.

Ideally a partner is around my age, give or take 10 years. They would also have a desire for discretion and navigating boundaries and ideals together that work towards a fair feeling for both people.

I hope this gives you, the reader, enough to go on for that first bite of intrigue without having to delve into a ton of personal detail. Looking forward.