Kind of a blunt headline but there it is, with that said I've been going reading through posts and it looks like I'm not the only one. Anyway, enough with the formalities, this married guy is looking to meet that one amazing woman (although there are so many of you) who is equally eager to get their dopamine fix through that little text icon appearing on their phone. That person who is looking to find someone that will make their heart race with anticipation and wants to send and receive good morning texts, good night texts, talk on the phone during the commute, exchange pictures and when we aren't able to spend time in person be each other's sexual relief valve.

I’m here and willing to put in the time, energy and effort. To learn about you and understand you, to know what makes you happy and sad and equally open myself to you. I am craving a mental and physical connection because I have been living in a desert of both for years now, it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone.

What do you get when decide to take a ride with me:

Reliability & Real-I'm here for the long haul and not looking to play games, ghost, spend a day talking or any of the other nonsense we as adults should be past. You're a person just like me, with feelings just like me. A lot of us are already in a fragile state from feeling neglected or unwanted, it sucks for me and I sure as hell don't want to exacerbate that feeling for anyone else. I want to make time for the person I connect with and hope they do the same for me.

Communicative-At the end of the day, we’re looking for an emotional, mental and physical relationship. If we’re being honest most of us are looking for a sexual connection (in whatever shape that is for you), and while I would be THRILLED for us to spend days on end in bed the reality is we aren’t (probably) independently wealthy and it most likely would put us in a state of great pain, which is bad for OPSEC. Being able to have a conversation with each other, to open up and share our thoughts is the way to make all this work

Smart, Professional and fun-I am a well-educated and interesting person. I have awesome hobbies, a job that is fulfilling and the time to make this happen. I have an amazing imagination that will keep you on your toes throughout the day and possibly cause you to need to change your clothes mid-day...

Fit and attractive with a high libido-I work out 5-6 days a week and am in-between the dad body phase and jacked phase (I'll let you decide which end of the scale). I am tall with attractive features and have never gotten any complaints. I am fortunate enough to still have the libido of a teenager and can last as long as you need me to.

I'm sure my person is out there, I'm hoping this is the leap that finally brings us together