Happy Friday, wild world of Reddit!

I'm seeking an affair partner for a mental and physical connection. Chemistry is important to me and I enjoy the banter, the laughs, flirting and more. I'm looking for that needle-in-a-haystack and hoping our online paths miraculously cross.

About Me

Basic stats: I'm a fit (lean/muscular build), tall (6'), Asian man who was born in California (anonymized pic in profile).

I'm a happy, outgoing, and athletic guy with a light-hearted sense of humor. I'm an educated professional who works in tech with a fair amount of success. My hobbies include staying active (sports/gym), tennis, and reading. My basic interests include traveling, good food and walks in nature. I strive to be a gentleman but also have a fun and playful side.

I'm on the mid-peninsula and open to people within a reasonable distance in SF, the east bay and the south bay.

What I'm Looking For

Some basic things I'm looking for:

• Fit/healthy, active, takes care of yourself
• Married or attached, including recently separated or divorced
• 30-48 years old

Personality-wise, I find that I'm compatible with people similar to me. Someone with a warm, funny and overall optimistic personality. On a day-to-day basis, you're responsible, have your life together but also have a part of you with a sense of adventure. You're mature, emotionally stable and a good communicator. I also have a weakness for a cute smile.

Expectations

I'm looking for something somewhere between a secret friend to a gf-on-the-side. I value interacting in-person (coffee, walks, etc) -- I'm not looking for an exclusively, online-only chat friend. With that said, I understand that we all have busy lives and schedules are tricky, so my expectations are grounded in reality. Obviously, I will keep things very discreet and I'm not looking to up-end anyone's life. 

If you've read to the end of this long missive, send me a chat and tell me about yourself.